Be content with yourself. Love yourself for the person you are, no matter if you are lonely. The world has room for a diversity of personalities.
Put some fun into your life by going to games at school, walking through a park, checking out a museum, and so on.
However, try reaching out by doing fun things with another person or
group rather than doing them alone. What interests or hobbies do you
have that could be done with others? Check out the local clubs to see if
one would interest you.
Stop being so lost in thoughts, instead look around and see what's happening. Notice people and the environment,live in the moment, and stop worrying about being lonely.
Make some friends, one at a time. You can start by
saying hi to a person in school or wherever else you find people, and
the next day you make a conversation. Do this with several people over a
period of time. Learn and use their name after meeting someone.
Think more about others and not so much about yourself.
This is often tough to do, but extending your interest to other people
will help channel your thoughts away from your loneliness.
Volunteer. Look for areas where you could help an
individual or a group after school or during other free time. By helping
others, you will keep busy and get your mind off yourself. Plus, by
being with others, you are able to establish friendships.
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